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Does anyone else feel like they are just winging it with life? Like you actually have no fucking idea what tomorrow is going to bring or how you are even going to handle it?!

Me too!!

Every. Single. Day. is a guessing game. I mean I don't at all feel like I'm losing at life & have an idea of what I want to achieve, but I have absolutely no idea how I'm going to get there & I just wing it every day & make the most of any opportunity!

I feel like from kids we are set a life plan (Summer O'Brien has recently touched base on this part) School, Uni, Travel, meet man/woman of your dreams, house, marriage, kids etc etc. And automatically we are classed as failures if we don't do everything in that exact order.

I definitely did not! I did school, dropped out for a job to save money before i left to study, moved in with my boyfriend at 17, moved away to study ( got in trouble along the way) moved back home, set up a business, got pregnant at 21 & again at 23, worked part time, broke up with the boys' Dad, did me for a little bit ;) Met an amazing guy, he moved in with us & we made a neat little family. Fell out of love after two years & he moved out, it ended well, we are still good friends. Now I'm back, just me & my boys, I'm in a new relationship & I couldn't be happier. And I love it!

I have an amazing, thriving business & two happy, healthy boys who are going to cause me grief in a few years! But I wouldn't change any of it for the world. I have a solid family & the best friends you could imagine!

I know I'm rambling, but what I guess I'm trying to say is that there is no 'right' way of doing life. Shit I know loads of people who have done it the way society believes it should be done, and they are miserable!

I feel like if you're passionate about something, do it! If it's right, never mind what other people think. If you want to travel the world, go! If you want to stay in the same job you have had since you were 18 because you love it, stay! If you fall in love & people have opinions about it, let them have their opinions, you can't actually change the falling in love process, so you might as well go for it!

Keep living your life, take each day as it comes & keep on dreaming! If you have goals & dreams, you will get there, it doesn't matter in what order, or in what time frame! Let's just keep getting up every day & making this guessing game we call life the best life we can.

Have an amazing day

Kirsty xx

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